- Johannesburg,
- the Race for Mayor,
- the ideology of the DA,
- and the difference between the ANC and DA.
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We Don’t Have to Be Experts to Give Advice...
One reason many people stay silent is that they believe they are “not qualified” to speak.
We tell ourselves that our opinions don’t matter.
Unless we have degrees, titles, or years of formal experience,
So we hold back, even when we’ve learned something the hard way.
But life doesn’t work like that.
Some of the most valuable advice does not come from "experts".
It comes from ordinary people.
Those who have lived, struggled, failed, tried again, and learned a few lessons along the way.
Experience, not expertise, is often what makes advice useful.
You don’t need to be a mechanic to warn someone that ignoring strange noises in their car is a bad idea.
You don’t need to be a financial adviser to say that living beyond your means causes stress.
And you don’t need to be a psychologist to say that kindness, patience, and listening can make a difference.
What matters is honesty.
Good advice is not about pretending to know everything.
It’s about saying, “This is what I’ve learned,” or “This is what worked for me”.
Or even, “This is what I wish I had known earlier.”
That kind of advice doesn’t lecture. It Shares.
Of course, there are times when expert advice is essential.
We should not replace doctors, engineers, or legal professionals with guesswork.
But much of everyday life is not about technical expertise.
It’s about choices, attitudes, habits, and values.
And on those things, many of us are well qualified.
We should also remember that advice does not have to be perfect to be helpful.
Sometimes a simple reminder, a word of encouragement, or a gentle warning is enough.
The listener can decide what to accept and what to ignore.
When we silence ourselves because we think we are “not experts,” we lose something valuable.
Shared Wisdom.
Communities grow stronger when people talk about what they have learned.
Not when everyone waits for permission to speak.
So if you have learned something useful, say it.
Share it humbly, without claiming authority.
Offer it, not as a command, but as a contribution.
You don’t have to be an expert to give advice.
You just have to be honest, thoughtful, and willing to help.
I hope this article helps you a little.
With very best wishes,
Chris Wilkinson.
Is your Retirement something to look forward to?
Retirement - after working most of our adult lives, we now face the daunting prospect.
No more managers to tell us what to do. No more clocking in or out.
Our time is, at long last, our own. What are we going to do with it?
Even though we may have saved enough for our later years, there's always something that crops up to rock the boat.
Keeping busy is the most important.
If not for the money, for our own health and peace of mind.
Here are just a few tips, gathered from many sources, to help in your plans:
Live within your means.Try to stick to a budget.
Only buy what you need, when you need it. IF you need it at all.
Buying just because it's on "special" is a waste of money.
Buying anything in bulk eats cash flow.
You may need that cash for something else very soon. An emergency.
Don't buy what you cannot afford to. Never use credit to buy instant gratification stuff.
In fact, never buy anything on credit. It will always bounce back to hurt you.
More so in your later years.
Travel.
If you can afford it, make up for all those holidays you missed out on because of work.
Visit friends and family you haven't seen for a long time.
Especially kids and grandchildren.
Make the most of them while you can.
Or take a cruise. It'll do wonders for you.
Fix up the house.
You've got the time now.
Fix all those irritating things you've put off for years.
Or paid someone else to do.
You can save a great deal of money by doing it yourself, while improving the value of the house.
For the day you sell and move to the retirement village.
There are so many things we can do. We just have to do them.
The most important thing is that we enjoy our Retirement!
Happy Days!
With very best wishes,
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